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Me clean and it's just kind of like a you know a quick like put. Something away and that's it and then. He came out and told. Me he's like honey I've literally spent. All day cleaning the ground. I don't want to clean anymore yeah and that's not. All he does. He does quite a bit at work but when. You just get done. You know getting done doing one thing you don't want to come home and continue working yeah so look at that hi. I tried my best to but we've been working my little sister. Though she'll tell. Me she'll be like you're so bossy and the one day. I felt bad so.

I went to Ryan about and I was like do. You think I'm bossy. He was like and I kind of need. It all day every day yeah that's what's happening to them they're being told. What to do yeah. They come over and you leave them to their laurels. What are they gonna do think about it oh gosh so well alrighty so we're on our last one for this article. We can find out 100 military spouses are high maintenance no no. I feel like low maintenance yeah. I need my husband would say. That I'm very high. Me but I don't think. That there's everybody I think. That I think women in general can be high maintenance yeah oh yeah so. I don't know why even military has. Anything to do with. They really yeah and that like. We said it's all stereotype.

 That well you know. We sit at home doing nothing husband so. You know we have to be high maintenance. Because you know. We thought a minute. I thought you meant by. I mean it's like here are a lot of attention that's why yeah my husband's gone so much. When he's home and like like. That like let's talk let's go do. Something like. I want to get out oh yeah that's what you would say hi like. It takes a lot of energy. Because they're constantly like the guys are coming it's like. They come off the boat. They kind of expect the world to stop and it's like hey I've been gone for so long like. Me me me me. Me yeah it's like. You still got work to do. You have you know there's some moms out there. That you know coach little leagues and this back the other like time doesn't just freeze. Because they go out the boat so. I think it's kind of like a double-edged sword sometime yeah.

All right my husband allows. Me high maintenance. I spend an hour on my makeup yeah but you don't want. Me to go and lay out without hair. I think it's probably mutual. I don't conserve myself I mean--is and my husband has told. That he doesn't necessarily see. That but I can get the whole makeup in here. Because I can take a very long time but so can my husband is like a nice haircut and he will make sure. That it is shaped properly yeah. He will go to my like level of high maintenance is are. You comfortable like walking outside of the house in your pajamas without makeup on cuz. I am so I don't see my size. I maintenance like.

I used to be before. We had our son. I would take a long time to straighten my hair but now I'm just like. I like am going to put makeup on I'm going to put makeup on well yeah I'm not halfway doing it we're not gonna just like little bit we're going to and see. Something like. That I'm super alone. You guys have. All seen my lovely house. It is not very well-maintained sometimes just. This little corner yeah so. I think that no matter. What scenario types are out there. I think that it's kind of ridiculous to justify a whole group of people into. These stereotypes. When across the board. Everybody is kind of he's like say Amen.

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That doesn't mean. That we're rich. We have huge paychecks so we're just romantic your money well as a teen as opposed to yeah right five getting out of college yeah finally finish a internship alrighty number eight I'm here but I think there's partial truth to that I would say. That it's not like. All day every day are lonely but there is definitely going to be a time in your life.

Where your spouse is gone there is employed or their underwear they're away at school and you're by yourself then yeah yeah lonely sometimes but I think it's not like a forever type yeah and there's a lot of jobs out there. Either spouses going all the time. You know like. We were in Boston. We were like two passing ships. Because yeah. I did a lot of events and you're coming home at one o'clock in the morning and he's gotta be at work at 4:00 yeah and there are like. You know for military families. That have their spouses are. You know are deployed. You know I fleet and family like.

Whenever I was in Charlestown. You know my husband was working you know 20 hours a day like. They set up a little like get. You know get to know like. What your husband does and stuff like. That and we just sat there in met a whole bunch of you don't have military sauces like that's a great way to meet new people. That are in the same position. That you are yes oh it's true. You can control. How lonely you are yeah yeah. You get season far away from your family and you don't want to make the efforts to get to know people around. You yeah yeah you're gonna be. More lonely. Somebody who yeah puts themselves out there it's a little bit. More outgoing yeah then take advantage of the no picnics and summer things.

That you know bases and boats and doesn't put on for the family members like. If you're you know without going the barbecues of the set the other. That they invite the entire boat and their families to then you're not really exposing your nose so also. You live on base base housing will do like every. Once in a while they'll put on events. You meet your neighbors and everyone else in your community so that's also. Where oh yeah yes week advantage at this time yeah or if. You don't like. That type of thing just go out and meet people in your community yeah. It doesn't have to be other military families but yeah just post things on Facebook marketplace yeah.

You know I actually met. One of the guys on my or the men's wives on my husband ship the other day. She came into. Any of our Marcel balls coming up so. Some famous last words. This is your first ball my husband. Because I know recently. They had one and I was like why you didn't tell. Me mostly what if. I wanted to get. All nice and dressed up for the first time just look nice for you for it I was like. If the ball happened. You will tell. Me or you look back at like pictures of your husband in uniform and you're like oh. If only I could have worn. These but in the moment he's like I'm hot I'm sweaty. This is itchy. I don't want to go home. You know don't don't listen to us nice yeah oh here's the next. One here all military spouses are bossy man.

That joins the mill. We need to be told. What to do is that. You deal with the spouse that's out to sea a lot it's like somebody's gotta be at home to make sure. That the bills are paid and then. I was taken care of and the house looks good and then it's kids a bit bad and your dog is still alive and like two months out of the year. They tend to just go with the flow cuz. You can you know. I think that you get so used to doing things your particular way yeah. Because sometimes. You just have to end right yeah. If that's bossy and maybe. We are everybody's like he's came home and I I would get a little fresher. Because I'm like. We need to clean the house it's gross like please help. 

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You I'm like Jeff said for my CAA. It is like a pretty much like a grant um and you can basically go on their website. You can call them they'll do a interview with. You and basically just trying to figure out why you're choosing the you know subject or yes the groom half. That you want to learn about but I know iI've used my ca and they were absolutely wonderful so it's very simple just a quick phone call and you just make sure.

 That your school. You know accepts that's much much yeah. I do have a little bit of a statistic here um so military spouses. It says 84 percent of spouses have at least. Some college. Whether it's couple of classes courses and 31 percent have completed bachelor's and graduate degrees and that they say is higher. Than your national average yes so we're actually getting more educated already number seven. All military spouses are wealthy yes. Because here's a direct quote because of the servicemen members ginormous paycheck and amazing benefits right. You have to rebuy. Because it gets dented and busted up in a move born.

What do you call. It like you write like the big like down payments or whatever. That you have to put down to like tech fees and the staff and the other all. That stuff gets eaten up. We lost so much money having to move. You know two times in a row ya know trying to buy houses and the set. Another so it's a joke it's the same amount on the down payment for our part like the puppy payment on our apartment. That we did for the puppy yeah like including shots and neutering and everything like yeah. It was ridiculous and every time.

You move exams oh yeah in Hawaii. I remember so like. You have to pay your first month your last month and then the pet peeve so. Most places your monthly rent is like around 2500 so that's like seventy five hundred dollars. That you have to put down just to move. It into a place yeah. You really need. That much money in the military. Nobody would ever get out yeah and you have to be highly qualified to be in the military. Because everybody would want to be there yeah yeah yeah and it's not. That it gives. You a comfortable like career in the military gives.

You the stability to live a comfortable life by no means are. You rich a lot of the younger like. I know with my husband went in very very young so with. That like he was so far ahead of all our peers because of his military training and he's actually in paid to go to school there's a lot of the kids are their students our age are still paying in Jack like have a lot of stuff to do but with. That being said like. 

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All military spouses big puffy heart love gossip gossip comes from is a lot of problems and you really don't want to be a part of that we are our military smells. Because all you do is draw your husband with. You and you want them getting in trouble no. I think it's like hurt on military sauces in general to like make friends. Because you're moving at least to another's you don't necessarily want to just talk bad or create. Some kind of drama yeah. Because they're your family away from family yeah exactly. You kind of like break.

That barrier. It you're alone yeah yeah I'm gonna be honest there are people. That love gossip oh yeah we're yeah but just to have. That one stereotype yeah on a group of people like. You find that in the workplace yeah. I get anywhere yeah everywhere. All righty number five. All military spouses wear their service members rank no don't do. That yeah there are nah but I think. That for the most part that's not the case and when. You find those people. You just tend to steer clear yeah yeah yeah and I definitely. That is something that like big stereotype like. I don't ever use surfing yeah. I don't think I've. Even asked anybody like. I always ask like. What does your husband do yeah but it'd be as nice to you like.

What Ruslan's ring ask. That at works at one time and I froze up. I was like am. I allowed to say. That like is that one of the things. That I wanted to say that's just rude it's like. You don't even ask. Somebody like. How much money yeah yeah. All right number six. All military spouses are uneducated wrong wrong. I started college in Charleston but we moved and I you know when's this little guy going back to college yeah that's different. I mean that's just you're starting your family. I mean it's very hard. We transferred so. Many times and then transferring schools and stuff but I was like I'm not.

You know throwing away thousands of dollars on finishing this yeah yeah. I hope to have. That stereotype. You know I had so. Many military spouses take advantage of the MyCAA chance to go back to school so. I think that you might. You might find that people's education might take them longer. They have a their civilian counterparts or people who aren't married to somebody in a military just. Because like Kate said like I'm a Miss not like you're just constantly moving yeah and so finding schools. You can transfer. Some schools don't take certain credits. We had our schools so. It just kind of makes. It more difficult but I wouldn't say. That we're in unless educated. Everything else no and by the way.

That does happen to you and your school tries to come back and say. That they're not going to accept certain credits the only thing you really have to do is go and pull your syllabus from the credit until 99% of the time they're not going to accept your credits. Because somebody in the admissions office is just too busy to request a syllabus from your school so. If there's if the school. That you're transferring from is not a like that's a sister school but like. You know what mostly yeah like according with them they're not going to do the work yeah just. That class really transfers so. You are not your spouse trying to get your degree just make sure. You keep all of your syllabuses. Wherever you like syllabus. I smoosh syllabi nine times out of ten.

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Bunny being enlight. You look back at like pictures of your husband in uniform and you're like oh. If only I could have. More of these but in the moment he's like I'm hot I'm sweaty. This is itchy. I don't I just want to go home. Hi guys and welcome back to adventures from the home front I'm Jessica. This is Amanda Kate Olivia and that little guy is baby James he's joining us against and filming today and today we're gonna be talking all about military stereotypes so actually olivia has found a little website. What does that military like oh yeah has the top ten mil spout stereotypes. We hate the most yeah. I read through them and we're.

All gonna kind of react to them yes. We don't know what they are so you're gonna get a like on twin cuts reaction. All right so. If we're ready to start number. One it's all military spouses are unemployed Oh like 50% Irv. You last week. I texted you about that ever so fin like fingers cries. I thought was the day. That something happened. Though that's I know cuz. We were joking people want. All military spouses are perpetually pregnant no no no no I've never been pregnant no plans to in future. While military spouse. I would like to be pregnant right now makes sense. Though a lot of people like to have their kids close.

I I just I would like to have like four kids to have a little sibling yeah but you really must have a good job and money to bring them, if you need to find a new perfect job site https://medicalfieldjobs.com/ can give you lots of examples to make resume. We were my sister and I were two years apart so. It would be yeah I'm. Nothing we were not a military family like growing up so yeah. You professionally pregnant yes yeah. All right number three. All military spouses have a hill of kids at home not. That there's anything wrong with. That so this is like hold on every day so like a lot of different ages very like aging and ranging so.

They have like a high number of kids like like minivan family yeah. I really only know. One family from. All the places. That we've been to they have like five kids but they. Both came from life. I think each have like five or six siblings yeah I'd like to know. Where military families get the money to have. That many kids good for you guys yeah yeah there's nothing wrong with. That that'd be hard yeah I'd be really hard it's really hard it's hard. If you're not in the military but I know largest have kids period yeah. I was Harry no military. Anything expensive yeah no said the military families. I met have like two or three kids yes is normal yeah yeah that's such a normal number yeah exactly yeah. I number four.